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Regulated Relationships · Relationship coach
I help couples stuck in the same arguments and quiet disconnection stop believing "this is just how relationships are" and find their way back to each other, through the Regulate, Relate, Communicate
I'm Trish. I help people in long-term committed relationships who love each other but keep ending up in the same arguments and the same quiet distance. I've lived it. My husband and I separated, found our way back, and still spent years stuck in the same loops until I learned how the nervous system shapes everything about how we connect. Now I help couples regulate themselves, restore the sense of being seen, safe, and supported, and actually talk to each other again. My work draws on Imago and Polyvagal theory, but really it's about helping two people stop just getting through the day and start making the most of the life they've built together.
This is coaching, not therapy or medical care, and it isn't a substitute for either. If there's a significant untreated mental health condition or addiction, an active crisis, or an unsafe situation, please reach out to the right professional support.